Desire can feel different after having children. Exhaustion, changes in your body, and the demands of parenting can affect whether sex feels appealing or feels like another thing someone needs from you.
Written by Jessica Reis, LMFT, CST, CFT™, Just F*ck Him (If You Want To) explores desire after children, discomfort during sex, body image, and how partners can share responsibility for making closeness possible. It includes examples of what to say, questions to work through together, and guidance on when professional support may help.
The “if you want to” matters. This guide does not ask you to push through pain or have sex you don’t want.
$0.99 · Downloadable PDF · 10 pages
Includes a fillable reflection page and further reading. For adults 18 and older. For education and personal reflection; not a substitute for therapy or medical care.
Desire can feel different after having children. Exhaustion, changes in your body, and the demands of parenting can affect whether sex feels appealing or feels like another thing someone needs from you.
Written by Jessica Reis, LMFT, CST, CFT™, Just F*ck Him (If You Want To) explores desire after children, discomfort during sex, body image, and how partners can share responsibility for making closeness possible. It includes examples of what to say, questions to work through together, and guidance on when professional support may help.
The “if you want to” matters. This guide does not ask you to push through pain or have sex you don’t want.
$0.99 · Downloadable PDF · 10 pages
Includes a fillable reflection page and further reading. For adults 18 and older. For education and personal reflection; not a substitute for therapy or medical care.