Why desire disappears after children, and what helps bring it back.
Low desire after kids is the most common presenting problem in my practice and the most misdiagnosed. This guide covers the four suppressors that account for most of it — labor, money, body, and skills — the desire science that ends the self-blame, the postpartum body repairs, solo remapping, oral sex as a skill in both directions, and the daylight scripts for the conversations underneath all of it.
Includes a scored audit worksheet: four suppressors, an honest reading, one change at a time.
Ten pages. Written by a licensed marriage and family therapist certified in both sex therapy and financial therapy.
Why desire disappears after children, and what helps bring it back.
Low desire after kids is the most common presenting problem in my practice and the most misdiagnosed. This guide covers the four suppressors that account for most of it — labor, money, body, and skills — the desire science that ends the self-blame, the postpartum body repairs, solo remapping, oral sex as a skill in both directions, and the daylight scripts for the conversations underneath all of it.
Includes a scored audit worksheet: four suppressors, an honest reading, one change at a time.
Ten pages. Written by a licensed marriage and family therapist certified in both sex therapy and financial therapy.