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Jessica Reis 11/2/26 Jessica Reis 11/2/26

Sex After Betrayal: What the Recovery Actually Involves

The sexual relationship does not recover on the same schedule as the emotional one. The patterns that occur after disclosure, why intrusive imagery happens, and what predicts rebuilding.

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Jessica Reis 10/26/26 Jessica Reis 10/26/26

The Four Money Fights: What Couples Are Actually Arguing About

Couples have an unlimited number of financial arguments and generally one of four disputes. Which one is running determines whether the conversation can conclude.

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Jessica Reis 10/19/26 Jessica Reis 10/19/26

The Spending Cycle: What the Menstrual Cycle Has to Do With Financial Behavior

Research links the days before menstruation to increased unplanned spending. What the evidence actually supports, how to track your own pattern, and what to build around it.

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Jessica Reis 10/12/26 Jessica Reis 10/12/26

The Sexless Marriage: How Couples Get There and What the Way Back Requires

No couple decides to stop having sex. They slide, and then the silence locks it in. How marriages get there, and the sequence the way back requires.

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Jessica Reis 10/5/26 Jessica Reis 10/5/26

Financial Trauma: When the Emergency Ends and the Body Does Not Update

The emergency ended years ago. Your body's conclusions about money did not. What financial trauma is, how it presents, and why financial planning does not reach it.

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Jessica Reis 9/28/26 Jessica Reis 9/28/26

Responsive Desire: If You Never Want Sex Out of Nowhere, Nothing Is Wrong With You

If you never want sex out of nowhere, nothing is wrong with you. Your desire has a different ignition, and misreading it damages couples more than the difference ever does.

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Jessica Reis 9/24/26 Jessica Reis 9/24/26

Money Shame: Why It Survives Every Raise

Shame does not read statements. Why money shame survives every raise, where it was installed, and the disclosure work that reaches it when planning cannot.

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Jessica Reis 9/21/26 Jessica Reis 9/21/26

Postpartum Desire: What the Six-Week Clearance Does Not Tell You

Cleared at six weeks is about tissue, not desire. What the appointment does not assess, what actually affects postpartum sexual recovery, and the realistic timeline.

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Jessica Reis 9/14/26 Jessica Reis 9/14/26

The Financial Load: The Household Money Work Nobody Counts

One partner carries the tracking, the planning, and the three a.m. worry. Naming the invisible money labor, what an imbalance costs, and how couples move it.
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Jessica Reis 9/7/26 Jessica Reis 9/7/26

Desire Discrepancy: The Most Common Problem in Sex Therapy

The most common presenting complaint in sex therapy, and nobody in the couple is the problem. What the gap actually indicates, what causes it, and what treatment addresses.

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Jessica Reis 8/31/26 Jessica Reis 8/31/26

Money Scripts: The Financial Beliefs You Inherited Before You Could Question Them

Your money beliefs were installed in childhood, before you could evaluate them. The four scripts the research identified, how to tell which one is running yours, and what actually changes it.

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Jessica Reis 8/27/26 Jessica Reis 8/27/26

The Breadwinner Effect: Income Gaps and Desire in Marriage

Income differences change power, and power changes desire. A certified sex and financial therapist explains how earning gaps affect intimacy and what helps.

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Jessica Reis 8/22/26 Jessica Reis 8/22/26

The Feminine Urge to Make Your Own Money

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Jessica Reis 8/20/26 Jessica Reis 8/20/26

What Happens in Sex Therapy? A Certified Sex Therapist Explains

A Certified Sex Therapist explains what sex therapy involves, what a first session looks like, and what it treats.

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Jessica Reis 8/13/26 Jessica Reis 8/13/26

Emotional Spending: What Your Purchases Are Communicating

Emotional spending is a regulation strategy, and it works, briefly, every time. The five jobs your purchases are doing for you.

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Jessica Reis 8/6/26 Jessica Reis 8/6/26

Should Couples Combine Finances? A Therapist's Framework

Joint accounts, separate accounts, or both? A licensed couples and financial therapist explains why the structure matters less than the agreement underneath it.

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Jessica Reis 7/30/26 Jessica Reis 7/30/26

What Is Financial Intimacy? How Couples Build It

Financial intimacy is the ability to be fully known by your partner around money. A triple-credentialed couples therapist explains what it is and how to build it.

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Jessica Reis 7/23/26 Jessica Reis 7/23/26

How to Talk About Money With Your Partner Without Fighting

A licensed couples and financial therapist gives the exact structure for money conversations that stay calm: timing, format, opening lines, and repair.

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Jessica Reis 7/16/26 Jessica Reis 7/16/26

Why Couples Fight About Money: What the Fight Is About Underneath

Money fights are about safety, control, fairness, and being seen. A licensed couples therapist explains the four fights underneath every money argument.

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Jessica Reis 7/8/26 Jessica Reis 7/8/26

Financial Secrecy in High-Earning Couples: Why Wealth Makes Hiding Easier

Financial infidelity at high incomes uses entities, accounts, and complexity instead of hidden receipts. A financial therapist on how wealth changes concealment and repair.

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